Many teachers, trainers and authors have inspired me in my journey to become a relationship coach and therapist. I’ve done four webinar trainings in couples work & sex therapy with Dr. Terry Real & Dr. Esther Perel. And I trained with Terry using his various tool kits & audio classes, plus did his online webinar training Relational Life Therapy Level 1.
Terry Real is an internationally recognized Family Therapist and author who has been featured often on Good Morning America and ABC News. Terry founded the Relational Life Institute (RLI), and offers a professional training program for clinicians to learn his RLT (Relational Life Therapy) method.
I’ve attended several teleseminars in which Terry Real and Esther Perel addressed the many issues which couples face, especially around power and sexuality.
I have created a series of handouts which combine my 2013 teleseminar trainings with Terry Real and Esther Perel, his “Foundations of Relational Life” training, and my reading of the following materials “The New Rules of Marriage“, “I Don’t Want to Talk About It“, “How Can I Get Through to You?“, the “Relational Life Institute Toolkit” & his “Full Respect Living Tool Kit“.
- The Relationship Grid
- Understanding your Relationship Grid Quiz Results
- A Couples’ Counselor Takes On ‘Normal Marital Hatred’ – article in New York Times
- Our Adaptive child vs our Functional/Wise Adult parts
- Terry Real on Relational Life Therapy – 27/6/22 audio 50:08
11. Time-Out 2020
13. Traditional masculinity vs relational intimacy. 14.5 minute video, start at 1 min 28 secs. Accountability, vulnerability & empathy.
13a. Male anger – Terry Real & Michael Kimmel. 1 hour video.
14. Love in the 21st Century. 5.09 minute video
15. The New Rules of Marriage. 6.09 minute video
16. Self-esteem and Depression in Men. 2.06 minute video
17. The New Rules of Therapy. 14 minute video
18. The Relationship Grid to create a healthy relationship.
19. Creating Healthy Attachments & Overcoming Abandonment with Terry Real. 4 minute video
20. Esther Perel interviews Terry Real – 37 minute video
21. Why Relationships Fail – 34 minute video
22. Shame & Grandiosity Among Men – 25 minute video