Couples Intensive Retreats in Australia & online
Is your relationship in crisis? Don’t have time for weekly counselling? Do you need help from a relationship expert? A couples intensive retreat might be exactly what you need. It’s a two day relationship fix!
Please note
Retreats take place on Sundays and Mondays, or over two Sundays/Mondays in a row. See available dates listed below. Other dates may be available by negotiation.
In the privacy of either my Faulconbridge practice or in a hotel suite in the Sydney CBD, learn evidence-based skills for building and improving intimacy in your relationship based on 50 years of research conducted by the Gottman Institute. The intensives are held in one location, but you stay nearby in an accommodation of your choice in Sydney or the Blue Mountains. It’s possible to combine the couples’ intensive with a romantic holiday experience as well!
Drs. John & Julie Gottman developed a focused and rewarding way of giving your relationship a boost of energy. They’ve designed an exquisite couples retreat that can be tailor-made to fit you and your specific relationship issues.
Research based skills & tools
You may be aware that divorce and separation statistics are high. Many couples don’t realise that there are evidence-based methods, based on scientific principles, which can help couples create happy and successful relationships.
It’s a fact! Over fifty years of research has revealed the secrets behind why some relationships grow and flourish while others are destined to crash and burn. I’m running these couples intensives to help prevent unnecessary separations or, if a break-up is threatening, as a final resort to retain your friendship.
You’ll learn how to:
- Invigorate your friendship
- Communicate clearly
- Boost your connection and understanding of each other
- Vitalize your intimacy & re-sexualise your relationship
- Heal sex and sexuality issues
- Work through the discovery of an affair
- Discover what hopes are hidden within your inevitable relationship conflicts
- Learn to manage conflict and also repair after fights
- Re-set your common values and shared purpose
- Set your own goals and/or we can create them together.
- Separate or divorce while respecting each other.
This may be the smart choice you need to make right now!
A couples intensive retreat is:
- Two days, usually a Sunday & Monday. Week days may be possible via negotiation.
- Private – just for the two of you. No other couples attend with you. You have me to yourself for two days.
- Consisting of 18 hours of couples therapy, including preparation, assessment & a personalised relapse prevention plan.
If your relationship is caught up in repeated fights or in silent, stony distance, help is possible. Despite your struggles, when you have an expert to guide you, your old hurts can be repaired bringing about rapid improvements in your relationship. Above all, it’s important to make sure you get the best help possible.
Relationship counselling is my specialty. I’m a clinical counsellor, therapist and coach specialising in relationship issues. I’m a specialized and expertly trained couples therapist with a Masters degree in counselling. I’m also an accredited sex therapist with ASSERT. I work for your best interests.
Make sure your counsellor has post-graduate training in couples work
Not all counsellors and psychologists are well-trained in couples work. Without specific training in couples work, which includes training in assessing and treating sex issues in psychotherapy, you may not get the help you need. And if these couples counsellors don’t practice using evidence-based relationship tools in their own lives, these poorly-trained therapists can’t help your relationship to resolve issues and old hurts. Make sure you choose a therapist who’s well-trained in couples work and who can help you achieve your specific relationship goals.
Your relationship can be renewed. You’ll get information about what love really is and how to create it in your life. You’ll get help to restore and deepen intimacy and passion. Fairy-tales about romance and sex will be replaced with specific knowledge, skills and tools to spice up your life. We now have decades of science showing what will really work to help you create a satisfying, secure and sexual relationship.
Eighteen hours of counselling
A couples intensive retreat is the equivalent of 18 hours of therapy, over two days, with just you and your partner and me, an experienced counsellor & accredited sex therapist. In many cases intensives have reversed gridlocked relationship problems and helped create deeper understanding, connection and hope.
- Two days
- Eighteen hours
- Plus a thorough evidence-based assessment of your relationship called the Gottman Relationship Checkup, in addition to a tailor-made summary of your Couples Intensive Retreat which includes a Relapse Prevention Plan.
Private couples intensive retreats are held over two days. Consequently, they may be the ideal solution for you if you can’t find a well-trained couples therapist near your home. In addition, intensives are useful if you can’t come to regular weekly or fortnightly sessions. If needed, we can follow up the intensive with Zoom sessions from your home or I can refer you to someone closer to your area.
Based on Gottman Method Couples Therapy
Many couples have made rapid gains by doing couples intensive retreats. You’re away from your normal surroundings, without interruptions and no kids! You have the perfect opportunity to sort through bad habits and unproductive ways of relating in a focused and constructive way. During the two days, you will feel supported and guided to encounter something totally different. You’ll receive information and coaching from an experienced couples therapist, tailor made for your issues. This often restores hope in what seemed a hopeless situation.
World-famous couples researchers and therapists Drs. John and Julie Gottman suggest couples get away 3-4 times a year, by themselves, without kids, and without friends to distract you. How often do you focus only on your relationship?
Couples Intensive Retreats are NOT advisable in these situations
- When one or both of you have active drug and/or alcohol abuse, from either partner’s perspective.
- If there is serious violence or threats of violence, or fear that serious violence may occur on the part of one or both partners.
- If either of you has an untreated/unmanaged mental illness (major depression, schizophrenia, psychotic depression, bipolar illness). This doesn’t include past, successfully treated psychotic episodes.
- If there is an ongoing, current affair that you are not willing to disclose (secrets predict couples therapy failure).
- If one or both of you are currently experiencing suicidal or homicidal thoughts, or has a history of serious harm inflicted on yourself or another person.
| Costs | Sydney CBD | Faulconbridge |
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Gottman Analysis + Intensive Summary + Relapse Prevention Plan = 2.5 hours |
$530 | $530 |
| 8 hours Day 1 | $2,585 | $1,635 |
| 8 hours Day 2 | $2,585 | $1,635 |
| Total Fee | $5,700 | $3,800 |
| 18 hours of couples’ therapy over 2 days! Plus a tailor-made Summary of your Couples Intensive Retreat including a Relapse Prevention Plan | ||
Please note: Sydney costs include a fit-for-purpose venue, plus my accommodation and travel costs.
Available couples intensive retreat DATES ARE BELOW: Bookings are made at least 8 weeks in advance to secure your place. Early registration is recommended. Urgent bookings are possible.
Other dates may be available by negotiation.
2024 – November 10-11, December 8-9.
Contact me to schedule an appointment for a couples intensive retreat, or call +61 421 961 687. I will be happy to answer any questions you have about my intensives. International clients call +61 421 961 687.
You can also book a couples Zoom session with me if you can’t come to my practice location. If you’re not ready to book an appointment, call me on (0421) 961 687 to book a FREE 15 minute phone consultation to discuss how I may be able to help you.
Vivian Baruch provides relationship counselling, marriage counselling, relationship coaching and sex therapy online and services the following areas: Penrith, Glenbrook, Blaxland, Springwood, Faulconbridge, Hazelbrook, Lawson, Wentworth Falls, Leura, Katoomba, Blackheath, Mt. Victoria, NSW. She also conducts couples intensive retreats in Faulconbridge & Sydney CBD, NSW.
